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i think that for some people, adding more into the mix does make it easier (it did for me).
for other peopel monogamous relationships are not extremely difficult. i know at least two couples married for decades who have never had any apparent significant blips in their relationship. that gets more rare as people's models for health and relationship change, which i think is what this totw is getting at (among other things?).

not in any way to prescribe anything for anyone, but i do find polyamory to be a closer model to the kind of anarchy i like, because part of my definition of poly is being open to whatever kinds of relationship seem good between people, ie fluidity (and being in the moment) is at least as valuable as stability to me... and i associate that with being open to chaos, which i associate with anarchy.
ugh. too much defnininining already...
just sayin'